I actually just reread my 29th birthday posts where I wrote about the 29 things I wanted to do differently and the follow up post about less materialistic things to do and I'm 30 now and I didn't do
I'm learning more about myself and I think this will be great help for me coming into my own.
My therapist and I both agree that we'd like me to be more mindful. I have a habit of thinking things will be better "when this happens" or I'l be able to do that thing I want to do "after I've reached this goal or done this thing". I'm so worried about getting to where I want to get to that I'm missing out on the present and what's happening now.
In the spirit of being mindful, I am not creating a resolution for the year, I want to make attainable monthly goals, and even weekly goals at times. These goals will be work related, home related, writing related, and self-care related.
Cheers to a new year, wish me luck!